Often in my life i have heard people saying LIFE IS HARD !!
I just look at them and ask COMPARED TO WHAT ??
Exactly!
That's the point, forget about the past defeats one might have had,one should be proud of living a life ....cause that's the hard thing...Once a great man said "We won the war as soon as we accepted the challenge.
Whether u win the challenge or not is a secondary thing...but accepting the challenge is what matters.....WHY we play and HOW we play is what makes a difference in out attitude towards approaching things...
Then let life throw lemons at you or oranges u have gotta enjoy the juice...!! ;)
Life chooses its target very carefully..it gives a task to a person who is capable of solving problems ...anyways what is life without problems..??
if i ask 10 people to choose between roller coasters and a train journey ...80% people would opt for the roller coasters,why?
off course because everyone would want every moment to be exciting and unpredictable...hence there is NO LIFE without ups and downs..
Sometimes we are not able to solve problems because either we under analyze our capability to solve problems or life over analyzes our capability!
Life has a smart way of handling stuff though, that is; it makes some strangers a part of your life who can later be called as friends or kin...some u seek advice from,some who motivate you,some give you ideas that benefit you, some teach you the valuable lessons of life and end of the day all act as the THERAPISTS of your life..
Now there are two categories of homo sapiens ...
ONE who needs a push or a kick-start towards their goal and need a little bit of criticism, also they tend to take care of mostly all the stuff lined up for them ad don't really need others help, while the SECOND category is the one who constantly need to be surrounded by optimistic people , who always needs a plan and feels awkward to move without one...and to sum it up they need therapists constantly to show the direction or as I may state, they like being the "MAN WITH A PLAN" !!
Everything in life comes with certain loop holes ...nobody is perfect!
The second category might seem more systematic to some people but to be honest it isn't....because you see, you constantly need people to act as therapists of your life..to guide you ,to show you the right direction as the filiform apparatus does to the pollen tube..(biology!)
Recently, a study has shown that;
"FUNGUS IMMUNE TO DRUGS SWEEPS THE GLOBE."
The study shows us that, the bacteria Candida auris is so tenacious, in part, because it is impervious to major anti-fungal medications, making it a new example of one of the world’s most intractable health threats: the rise of drug-resistant infections.
Which makes it fatal to humans and it has become resistant to all the antibodies because we have been consuming it at a higher rate which destroys 99% of the bacteria but the 1% which survives ,becomes genetically resistant and the divides and reproduces to form more resistant bacteria, and to conclude now we are progressing at faster rates ,ad we are capable to produce antibodies, but none of them will work on these bacteria since they have ADAPTED TO THIS ENVIRONMENT..
Now let us relate this very concept if being immune to something...off course you will become resistant after a while ...which ain't good for your health..cause u will become resistant to change and would not allow flexibility in life ..
That's what happens to the people who fall in the second category..as I have already stated there is nothing wrong in the path you choose but be certain about the loop holes in your way..
If u become too addicted to what people have to say o the choice u have made..then i fear u might not able be able to reach your destiny soon...
Take only so much advice that is going to act as a hint in your life ...because if u go in the search of solutions I fear u may not find one, because the problems of life itself are too unique ..
AS THE HEAVY USAGE OF ANTIBODIES HAVE LED TO FORMING AN RESISTANT BACTERIA , HEAVY USAGE OF THE ADVICE GIVEN BY PEOPLE WILL MAKE U RESISTANT TO YOUR INNER VOICE.... :)
MORAL: ADVISES ARE FREE,BUT IMPLEMENTATIONS ARE EXPENSIVE SO SPEND WISELY!!
This is a reall well written blog post. Must say, a really coherent argument presented by you here.
ReplyDeleteIt's good to hear people's opinions but never get so engrossed in them that you lose your own opinions or your own viewpoints on situations. People give opinions based on their experiences but a person handling a situation knows at best how to deal with something. So being open minded and listening to everyone is nice but it's upto us whom we want to follow. There are certainly two categories of people, maybe even more.... On concluding, I would like to say
People should give suggestions instead of advising someone and leave it to the person to follow what they want to
Because for giving Advice, you need to have something proven first.
Yes I totally agree with your viewpoint on this... It's always up to us who's advice should be accepted..I am overjoyed that u liked my blog... Thank-you so much... Stay tuned for more..
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